As a middle level Literacy teacher I don't teach kids how to read or work on hand writing, instead we analyze literature and learn how to write to specific audiences through a variety of genres. At the Middle Level kids are becoming young adults able and eager to participate in the world around them. Much like in academics, the social climate is much different then in elementary schools. These academic & social differences make it hard when districts bring teachers from all levels together for professionally development. We work at our levels for a reason! We don't always understand where we're coming from, and unfortunately, not everyone cares to.
Anyway, I feel I'm getting off topic. What I really want to say is at the Middle Level preparing students to be productive informed citizens in the world they live in is paramount. To a certain extent this is, and should be, the focus. I often tell people that what we do socially at the Middle level is just as important if not more important than academics, but really it all blends together.
All those phrases I mentioned, and often say myself, all point to one thing: we are doing a disservice to kids when we hand hold. The more teachers & parents make excuses for kids, the less we expect from them, the less we demand they advocate for themselves, the more we stunt their grow toward becoming self-sufficient, responsible, competent, learners.
I ask educators and parents of these kids, isn't that what we all want? Don't we want 15-year-old students to advocate for themselves, strive to do the very best at all they do, and get to a point where they are independent of support systems that must end at some point?
Imagine for me a world where these kids are grown. A world where these grown kids think they only have to do half the work their peers do, but get the same pay on payday. A world where these grown kids think they can't get fired from a job because they "have a right" to talk on a cell phone while on the job.
When we don't have high expectations for kids, they don't reach very high. When we don't teach and expect kids to speak up for themselves, they never will. When we teach kids that if mom & dad yell loud enough they will get their way, they will become entitled adults. When we become obsessed with accommodating for a child, they will feel as if they will only have to do half the work and work half as hard.
When we start approaching education like their is no safety net, no second chances, then we will start producing students with high expectations for themselves that take responsibility for their lives, and are competent, self-sufficient learners. Because really there is no redo. Holding kids back doesn't work and most of the time does more harm then good.
So why no urgency? Why grip that hand tighter and tighter the older they get?
Is it fear of an empty nest? Is it fear that they will reflect negatively on us as adults in their lives?
Come on, isn't that a bit selfish?
So on the count of three everyone let go of that hand. One...two...
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