So what's the topic of the week folks: bullying. Now I know your thinking bullying is an issue everywhere, how is this a new and relevant topic. I'm not talking about student bullying, I'm talking about seeds that were planted years ago, and now unfortunately, have bloomed into a full on epidemic: Parents bullying teachers. I'm not sure anyone has ever coined this phrase, but I know all educators can relate to feeling like a punching bag at some point in their teaching career.
In my short career I have had my integrity questioned, been accused of discouraging children to make their own decisions, I've been forced to change curriculum with threats of lawsuits, and the icing on the cake: I've been accused of being Over paid!
I've been sent hate email, had parents go straight to the superintendent with questions I could easily answer, I've even had parents accuse me of hiding student materials (books/computers).
Crazy, unheard of, insanity you might say. But if you're a teacher your response to all this would be "yeah, join the club."
We have reached a breaking point in education. A line has been crossed that I'm not sure we can recover from. The idea that all people, regardless of profession, are treated with a little human decency is now athing of the past. When I receive daily emails that are sent district wide questioning my integrity, professionalism, and motives, that borders on defamation of character.
The constant threat of losing your job, a lack of resources and time, long hours, expected unpaid overtime, the lowest pay, and now becoming the punching bag for anyone who wishes without threat of retaliation. It's real easy to to swing at a target you know won't ever hit back.
The worst part of everything I have just said: our kids are watching. Kids watch this behavior, they learn it, and then they copy it. That's the thing about kids they're constantly watching the adults around them to help understand how the world works and how to act within it. Think of what we have just taught them.
Can things change, sure they can change. But the next generation of parents just saw first hand how little we think of educators in this country and how they don't deserve their respect. So I wouldn't expect that change to come soon. That change will only come when the world finally realizes that we're all teachers in one why or another, and we're on the same side.
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